There is a problem with the expectations of the children who learn

We have all benefited from the film of the doctor's office, walking around in a restaurant or in church, and small children crying or laughing, in the light of experience. We look forward to both sides to try to see, but I hope the parents of the parents to the appearance of the dirty message type housing for their children to change. The parents seem unaware. We shook our heads and look at others and wonder why these parents teach their children how to behave on the road from home.

I know that most parents are not very suitable for their children's education practices in different settings. But there are a couple of times to forget that mothers or fathers who really, really seem to be, they also brought them to the children. What is it?

In some cases, I think that parents are caught in a moment - great that you talk, wants the case to the House and will be with an adult! You really are a couple of minutes (or longer) to the forgotten children. Parents fully consistent with them.

In some cases, I think that the parents lost control over their children at home, try not to manage them when they are represented. We all have parents to guide you through the whole of her two year old child is seen leaders. I'm always hurt, because these parents, I know what is coming for them. Somehow they are convinced that "if the child is older, the child is acting white." But with two teenagers approached and taught school for several years, I know that will never happen. When the children too little collaboration, you have to do a teen bribes to get to do something? If your toddler can now checks that your child is still the young people how to control it.

In other cases, I think that parents really do not understand how and why your children's behavior in different situations to learn. We are the parents often expect more from our children when they are able to do this. I was guilty with my son. He was very bright and clean a small adult - this is the birth of a child in the first order to think about. Syndrome

There are also cases where many families from one place to another, so the children do not learn the skills of these possibilities. I have had several experiences with secondary school students, the death and I am always amazed at how many students are not the "dress up" clothing and not appear or behave idea: "If the families are not in church or a church. The non-traditional churches, and then the child is probably not a "dress-up clothes." If someone has made, then they do not know what the expected behavior.

I know that many of the students, the school, starting school, moving, or simply by changing the high school, high school is a frightening experience. She often told no one what to expect and how it should work. We often let them know. But they do not.

If you are a small child, parents, remember that everything is a new experience for the child and the child is forced to really, what teachers expect and how they behave. Explains the new things instead of the transaction as they wait in internal security. It is also advisable to "Event Action" at home, or take a trip. Continuous attention to the child, if the solution of the problem, if necessary. "That's not how we work in the restaurant" the whisper in the ear, can easily be sufficient. Children must learn what you expect from them, even if they finish secondary school, get a phone that you go to one of the dates on the list, etc. What other parents do not expect their children may wonder what to expect. When the training problem begins when the kids are to young people in their teens is much more pleasant.

Shirley Bass, "Slick Tricks Lady", is a former high school math teacher and degrees in mathematics and psychology at the brains and learning / training in education. His goals: (1) enabling parents to help their children with math, (2) for information on the errors and eliminate the terrible algebra (3), and the public on issues relating to education.

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